Welcome!

Although you might think my work as a career counselor would be mainly about helping people find work and career paths that suit them, it's much more than that; it's actually about helping people realize a good quality of life.

Quality of life means different things for different people: you define what your own quality of life will look like.

That's the wonderful, and the tricky, part of the career development process. It's the blend of personal choice and desire with the reality of workplace structure, the need for health benefits, the sacrifices that are often required to achieve a dream. And, I must say, the typical workplace does not invite the quality of life that most people seek, even for highly diligent and motivated employees.

That's why I'm a strong proponent of systemic and organizational change as well as personal career development. This blog and web site address both the personal/individual, and the big/systemic pictures related to this quest for quality of life.

I look forward to hearing your ideas - what's worked for you? What needs to happen? Any success stories on either the individual or the big picture scale? Please read the blog and feel free to make constructive comments. I welcome the dialog!

~ Betsy ~



The Quality of Life Quest Blog:

Vacation for your health

July 6, 2009

Will you be taking a vacation this summer? For health’s sake, I hope so.
Did you know that a number of research studies have shown correlations between vacation and physical and mental health? Pertaining specifically to women, studies have shown:

Women who take fewer than one vacation every six years are 50% more likely to suffer a [...]

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A break in the action at work

June 12, 2009

A bunch of years ago, I worked at a small publishing company that distributed its books from a warehouse right behind the main offices. The employers treated everyone the same, whether we worked in the office or in the warehouse; we all punched a clock and were paid by the hour (I have since [...]

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More vacation time, please!

June 10, 2009

We are so, so ready for this. A couple weeks ago, with virtually no media fanfare, a congressman from Florida (Alan Grayson-D) introduced the Paid Vacation Act of 2009. This is the first paid vacation act in United States history, and it provides for:

one week of paid vacation for employees of companies with at least [...]

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Trying too hard to have fun

May 28, 2009

Last time, I wrote about dealing with the “hectic-ness” of getting out of town for a long weekend. I mentioned the idea of setting aside your hopes for a perfect weekend. I certainly did not mean to wish anyone a not-so-good weekend, but it’s worth considering the difference between trying to have fun and allowing [...]

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Navigating the holiday travel crush

May 22, 2009

The radio folks just announced that about 32 million Americans will travel at least 50 miles from home this weekend (Memorial Day). I’m not one of them, but it got me picturing a long line of cars queuing up on I-70 (or the 405, the Kennedy Expressway, or whatever it’s called where you live). So, [...]

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The “boring” center

April 4, 2009

It seems to me that one of our biggest fears is that of being bored. Having a boring night out. Finding ourselves bored with nothing to do on a Saturday night. Bored with our jobs, with our routines, with our lives overall. When boredom threatens, we do whatever we can to avoid it…from eating something [...]

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The little things we (almost) step on

March 4, 2009

Last week, I took a long-awaited vacation. On a trail from the road to the sea in Mendocino, California, I admired the cypress, pine, and other tree varieties. As I stomped along in my hiking boots, I marveled that the sky had not produced rain clouds in three days. I was looking up and ahead, [...]

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To connect or disconnect on vacation?

July 22, 2000

My husband, Larry, and I love staying in bed and breakfasts when we travel. In planning a recent vacation, I noticed two very different approaches taken by most of the B&Bs we considered. Many highlight their “wired” nature, reassuring potential guests that they can remain connected to wireless Internet and, often, watch DVDs in their [...]

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